If you ever saw a hot girl you wanted to approach but felt too nervous to walk up and talk to her, this article on how to meet girls might be the most important thing you read today. And here’s why…
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I’m going to show EXACTLY how to start conversations with the kind of women you want even if you don’t know what to say. And unlike most other guys, I’m actually going to demonstrate what works and what doesn’t with these real hidden camera examples.
How do you start a great conversation instead of hovering around her like a creepy stalker?
Ok, so you see a cute girl you want to talk to. How do you start a great conversation instead of hovering around her like a creepy stalker? Since you might see an attractive woman you want to approach anywhere… I’m going to share a concept with you that works anywhere.
To demonstrate, here are two examples of how to meet girls.
One guy is doing it right, the other is not. Can you spot which is which?
If you guessed Example 2 is better, you’re right!
Do you know why? The concept I’m going to show you about how to meet girls, will hopefully make it obvious. Here it is, you ready?
The ability to align yourself with the purpose of a situation
Social relevance. What’s social relevance? It’s the ability to align yourself with the purpose of a situation. It demonstrates to her that you are socially aware enough to understand the basic social situation you are in, and that you’re able to align yourself with the purpose of it. Crazy people can’t do that, which is why what they say seems random and crazy. So the more socially relevant you are, the more sane and normal you appear.
Check out the clips of guys meeting girls again. See how the first guy is saying something random,
but in the second clip, the guy is actually saying something relevant to the situation.
Social relevance helps you make a first impression that is sane and down to earth instead of creepy or weird.
Examples of How to Meet Girls:
In Bars and Clubs:Where people go to have fun, socialize and have a good time, approaching with a fun and relaxed energy is socially relevant. So for example clinking your drink with hers and saying something like ‘Happy Thursday’ is socially relevant to a bar and club situation.
- On the street:Where she might not be expecting you to approach her, acknowledging her possible surprise with something like “This may seem random, but”… Let’s her know that you are at least aware of how she might be feeling.
Remember, acknowledging when you aren’t being socially relevant, actually demonstrates social relevance!
Now you understand why, when you meet women, saying something socially relevant can seem less weird than approaching with a random pickup line or question.
Your next step is making her WANT to talk to you more.
But social relevance isn’t everything. Your next step is making her WANT to talk to you more. In that regard, what you say next, and how you say it, is crucial. So if you’d like to learn what to do next to intrigue and attract her, check out our next video on how to meet girls, ‘How to talk to women’.
If you want to learn more about how to meet girls and how to get a girlfriend, check out the rest of our articles on How to Meet Women. If you have any questions, feel free to post them in the comments. We’ll do our best to answer them.
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